that dickhead, that works in the Community Adolescent Mental Health team is a fucking idiot.
I am way too angry here to make sense
He has just TOTALLY fucked up any chance for her to get any help
sorry - am ranting here
am waiting for a return phone call from the Service Manager of the entire unit.
sorry - i did warn you i would swear
maybe later i will come back and replace them with asterisk's or something
here is a few points
- he was dithering and uncertain when we arrived
- he sat and stared at her for probably 30 seconds between ineffectual questions, making ME uncomfortable, let alone her
- he asked HER if she needed help (take a look at that arm buddy) and when she said 'no' he said ok... session lasted 17 minutes
- I had to suggest to him that he try to give her some ways to deal with her anger and strong emotions, fuck, are they going to pay ME for that...
- he did not try, at all, to put her at ease, or make her feel comfortable enough to talk
- he told her that she didnt have any mental health issues and would need no medication - BASED ON WHAT YOU FUCKWIT (she is definately obsessive and probably at least co-dependent, i dont think she needs medication either, but she DEFINATELY needs help) now she has just had her denial confirmed, there is no problem with her, and it is me that has the issue. FARK
I would like to know what 'qualifications' this dickhead has. I had more of an idea of what to say then him, and i have NO qualifications. Pity she wont talk to me.
I took her there because i thought (clearly wrongly) that these people would be dealing with teenagers on a day to day basis and know how to make them feel comfortable enought to talk.
He just rang
apparently the fuckwit counsellor we saw is the one that TRAINS THESE PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Goddess help us. and our children. He has no answers. Nothing except to offer to get a female to talk to her. Yeah, as if she is going to put herself through that again.
i guess it is all up to me now
how do i do that when she refuses to talk with me and just gets angry if i try
am going now to stomp and rant and rave and swear for a while