Friday, 24 July 2009

Its a cruel cruel world

I have had a bit of a shocker today.

It has been insanely busy, with around 700k's being driven by yours truly, between home, cardiff, thornton, wallsend and home again.

in the meantime i found out that the grown son of a woman i work with has been diagnosed with a brain tumour. her husband dropped dead suddenly of the same thing only two years ago. three weeks between husband with no symptoms to burying husband. what a shock. now her eldest son has been diagnosed. hopefully it will be a less agressive kind. i am reeling. this is one of the most incredibly kind and lovley women i have ever had the honour of knowing. Certainly makes me think... and wonder.


husband chooses this evening to challenge me. i answer his questions honestly and forthrightly. now he is shattered. he didnt realise that while he had his head in the sand, i was slowly getting over the whole head in sand thing.

i dont know where we are going withthis

but it will be one way or the other, and soon

sigh


going to bed now

xoxo


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(¸.·´Lotsa luv from
Jen
xoxo

7 comments:

Natalie said...

OH.MY.GOB. Are you o.k????
Really, it is about time he realised......it has been a very LONG time.
I am SO sorry for your friend, that is just cruel.Really sorry, you wouldn't want that pain for anybody would you? xx♥

Lisa said...

with you always in spirit and friendship my sister xx

Myst_72 said...

Very sad news Jen.

On both counts, I really hope things are o.k. / going to be o.k. for you.

Love to you,

G
xx

Jewell said...

sending you love...and hugs xx

Wendy said...

Sending love and strength your way ♥

Cyndy said...

All I can say Jen, is shit, shit, shit, shit & shit. Very eloquent, I know.

Hopefully, there is an upside in this. Your friend's son can get the treatment he needs before it gets too bad, & you & Hubby can sort things out in a way that works for you all.

xoxoxoxox

Michelle said...

Awful about your friends son.

Good about you and hub though, really! Any movement is positive, nothing changes till something changes...

xxx