tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post6947912729895324702..comments2023-09-18T13:15:27.010+10:00Comments on One day at a time....: distrustful feelingsJenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11285222004070964787noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-13471248141331679102008-06-16T08:35:00.000+10:002008-06-16T08:35:00.000+10:00Some people are afraid of what they don't understa...Some people are afraid of what they don't understand and as everyone has stated it is their shit my darling, honour yourself, hold your head high and know that you are beautiful.<BR/>I love you JenHippy Witchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17476480522148175546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-32983346506913512922008-06-15T18:07:00.000+10:002008-06-15T18:07:00.000+10:00I know i read and often don't comment, mainly due ...I know i read and often don't comment, mainly due to bear pushing all the keys on the keyboard at the wrong time LOL<BR/><BR/>love to you JenHelenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09787089183191319380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-88846452239425090652008-06-14T12:39:00.000+10:002008-06-14T12:39:00.000+10:00Was really pissed off last night. Probably ranted ...Was really pissed off last night. Probably ranted a bit too much. I agree with the WWW thing Lisa, but yes, when it is used against you by someone from the Muggle world - my other mundane life - well.... I feel a bit violated. <BR/><BR/>My fault. <BR/><BR/>I should be aware - well, I was aware - just didnt expect consequences, thats all. I will be more careful in future.<BR/><BR/>I too dont comment every time i read a blog. But i have commented on everyones blog that i read regularly at some point. <BR/><BR/>And just for the record Lisa - I never ever hated you, and no need to apologise. Its all good. <BR/><BR/>Thanks everyone for your support.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11285222004070964787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-37251225158861454042008-06-14T12:15:00.000+10:002008-06-14T12:15:00.000+10:00shit.this is a complicated post.I have never thoug...shit.<BR/>this is a complicated post.<BR/>I have never thought about people reading my blog and needing to leave comment- i read nearly all the blogs but seldom comment and i dont see how that can be sneaking when they ( the blogs) are published on the World Wide Web.<BR/>However, i do have some idea what you are talking about becasue I KNOW of a couple who regularly read my blog and therefor know everything that is going on in my life and the nest and the cottage and then use it to tell other people what 'lisa is doing now'<BR/>Such is life.<BR/><BR/>As you will recall , a few weeks ago i suffered the pain of having someone fall off the pedestal and yes, it hurts and requires some thought readjustment.<BR/><BR/>Poor Jen- ofocurse everyone is going to think it is me you are pissed at becasue you ahted me earlier this week but i am sensing it is someone else altogether.<BR/><BR/>I hope i am right.<BR/><BR/>Comments on blogs shoudl not be important becasue who are you blogging for in the first place?<BR/>yourself or others ?<BR/><BR/>If this is causing you distress than maybe you need to adjust the blog settings so that only people you want to see your blog will.<BR/><BR/>Sending love Jen, as always<BR/>Maryme xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15047696858755347818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-19432672737814608112008-06-14T10:41:00.000+10:002008-06-14T10:41:00.000+10:00Hi Jen,Not sure what happened - but I'm sorry you ...Hi Jen,<BR/><BR/>Not sure what happened - but I'm sorry you feel bad. I know what you mean about the 'sneakers' I find it equally frustrating if you leave comments regularly for people and they don't ever leave you one.<BR/>Toni is the only person that reads my blog that I know 'in real life' - I think I would be a bit more restricted in what I say if there were any more - especially family/work.<BR/>As you say, it's their shit, you've done nothing wrong - and if you had they should have discussed it with you.<BR/><BR/>G<BR/>xxMyst_72https://www.blogger.com/profile/01670435027908994101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-78886549950162349332008-06-14T09:35:00.000+10:002008-06-14T09:35:00.000+10:00Nothing wrong with a bit of innocence my dear.Howe...Nothing wrong with a bit of innocence my dear.<BR/>However, you need to be able to leave things on the floor and not pick em all up and make em yours. If someone else has an issue with you its is totally their own shit and not yours to own. Do not waste your energy trying to figure out why, just as long as you are happy with you then all is well. If they bring up issues for you that involve bits of you that you are not happy with then maybe its the mirror principle happening for you and a little work needs doing. But for you not for them. Other peoples opinions are not your business and they can go and get knicked. So there!<BR/>Love you knobhead xxxxMichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00816138640432897870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-12652382946618526492008-06-14T08:22:00.000+10:002008-06-14T08:22:00.000+10:00Hi Jen. I'm not too sure about all this. Dysfunc...Hi Jen. <BR/>I'm not too sure about all this. Dysfunctional family????? I think that maybe it's just another variation on "normal".... I do like the "fun" bit though...... <BR/>And for some people, it's too hard to present their 'real'self. Maybe that one's not strong enough, or won't be liked. <BR/>I'm sorry that the actions of others have made you feel this way; trust your own judgement, and believe in yourself, Jen. You are worth it.<BR/><BR/>The boab tree is beautiful; I will have to research it now that I have "time"... *insert evil, maniacal laughter here*<BR/>Love to you and yours xoxoxoxoCyndyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08741387250033230745noreply@blogger.com