tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post6366844238242393215..comments2023-09-18T13:15:27.010+10:00Comments on One day at a time....: Blog more.....Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11285222004070964787noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-48057962443279791772008-02-01T17:39:00.000+11:002008-02-01T17:39:00.000+11:00and PSthankyou for the healingand PS<BR/><BR/>thankyou for the healingMichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00816138640432897870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-29079781652907917122008-02-01T17:38:00.000+11:002008-02-01T17:38:00.000+11:00Yes.I am sooo there..this last month has re shown ...Yes.<BR/><BR/>I am sooo there..<BR/><BR/>this last month has re shown me what REALLY not having control is all about.<BR/><BR/>I think I will be grateful for what I can 'control', that being me and my perceptions and actions, and try to get to acceptance on that which I have no control over, that being THE FUCKING HEALTH SYSTEMS IN THIS COUNTRY. <BR/><BR/>ahem<BR/><BR/>xxxxxMichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00816138640432897870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-924207884852841072008-02-01T13:02:00.000+11:002008-02-01T13:02:00.000+11:00yes Renata, I think you have hit the nail on the h...yes Renata, I think you have hit the nail on the head there... I think i gave it all up.. and now am spending most of my life 'reacting'. Once that starts, its hard to stop. <BR/><BR/>this is the blog where i found the original post, she explains it better than me. http://inthebowl.blogspot.com/2008/01/control-or-how-blue-momma-got-her.html<BR/><BR/>Cyndy, its not about what anyone else thinks or is doing. Its about how i am feeling inside. and on many levels i do feel 'out of control'. Like i am just following along... and now i am aware of it, i can name four or five scenarios in the last couple of days where i have just been railroaded along. <BR/><BR/>got to get 'me' back. i went somewhere a while back, possibly into a cave..... wish i knew where, i would go there too, there probably arent any kids there!!<BR/><BR/>thanks for your feedback... still ponderingJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11285222004070964787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-51439091122208010682008-01-31T21:18:00.000+11:002008-01-31T21:18:00.000+11:00Sometimes you have to look as to where the "Contro...Sometimes you have to look as to where the "Control" originates. Is it because we don't meet what we consider the "norm" or what others have, thus view it as a lacking within ourselves, or is it really about making life simpler, so the tiger is more subdued, and we don't feel like we have it by the tail?<BR/><BR/>It's hard, because a lot of the time, we just seem to get it all how we want, and then it just slips away....... The trouble is, it's never just us that are involved, it's everybody else, and there's just no controlling them...<BR/><BR/>And I think that this comment has taken on a life of it's own.... so bye Jen ;0)Cyndyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08741387250033230745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33259475.post-66741750550997756832008-01-31T17:44:00.000+11:002008-01-31T17:44:00.000+11:00It is a power and control thing...sometimes when w...It is a power and control thing...sometimes when we have little control over our world we tend to give up on having any (either all or nothing syndrome)...I started today by sitting on my bed a sorting out my millions of little saved bits of paper that are on one bookcase near my bed.I am taking it one piece of paper at a time! Also remember, your life may be boring to you cause you are living it, but for the rest of us, it is interesting and different from what we are all doing...so keep us informed.wykdwytchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18012238540104272881noreply@blogger.com